It’s like, I don’t even know if anyone’s going to listen, I’m just here to talk to you. You’re one of my favorites, so I’m always so honored to come and chat with you. Tina Payne Bryson: Thank you so much for having me. I’m excited for her to share some of her thoughts and wisdom with us.ĭr. Today, Tina and I will be discussing how to navigate our fears as parents. Unfortunately, not always crediting them as their sources and as the true groundbreakers, which is a disturbing trend I’m hoping will shift soon. Tina and Dan’s perspective has informed and inspired a whole generation of parents, and it appears more generations to come, as parent coaches these days frequently reflect Tina’s and Dan’s work in their advice. I’m sure you’ll recognize some of these titles: The Whole-Brain Child, No-D rama Discipline, The Power of Showing Up, and The Yes Brain. Tina has written a whole series of bestselling books with psychiatrist and educator Dr. Today it’s my great pleasure to host psychotherapist and brain researcher Dr. Transcript of “Our Fears as Parents – Real and Imagined (with Dr. Tina Payne Bryson (co-author of The Whole-Brain Child speaks to all of these questions with her usual brilliance and eloquence. say no and shield them? Are we saying no because it’s too risky for our child, or because it makes us anxious? How can we manage and understand our fears? Janet’s guest Dr. But how do we know when we should let go and trust vs. Naturally, we want to empower our kids to feel capable and resilient, self-confident rather than doubtful, not anxious or fearful. From the time our babies are born, we’re faced with a multitude of decisions about what we allow them to experience. Protective instincts are activated in us that we might never have known we had. The intense love we feel for our children makes us vulnerable to elements of their lives we don’t control. Tina lives in fear for their safety and well-being, knowing they have been exposed to drugs and gun violence while in his care.Becoming a parent changes us. Tina’s children spend half their time with her ex-husband and his family. Tina now works in Morocco as a full-time English teacher to students who remind her of her own young children, who she talks to everyday by video. This action, a part of the cycle of abuse, resulted in Tina being convicted of a criminal offense that triggered the government to strip her of her DACA status and deport her. Tina’s husband was incarcerated shortly after their marriage, but he continued to try to control Tina from jail, pressuring her to bring him prescription drugs. Further, he engaged in unlawful behavior that jeopardized Tina’s DACA status. Tina’s husband, who was aware of her immigration status, never filed a petition for Tina to obtain lawful permanent residency. Her husband was physically and psychologically abusive throughout their six years of marriage, during which she gave birth to two children. Tina’s secure family life changed after she got married in 2012. She is devoted to her family, and as a teenager often missed school activities to stay home and care for her brother, who has Down syndrome and a life-threatening heart condition. Tina was one of three siblings growing up in a loving family in Ohio. citizen children, ages 10 and 9, who remain in the United States. Deportation separated Tina from her two U.S. As part of his abuse, Tina’s husband pressured her to bring him drugs while he was incarcerated the resulting criminal conviction meant that Tina lost her DACA status and was ultimately deported. Tina’s husband subjected her to violence that continues to have a lasting toll on her and her loved ones. She received Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals (DACA), and later married and had two children. Tina, now 30, arrived in the United States as a child when she was three years old, and spent much of her youth helping to care for her brother who had Down syndrome and a life-threatening heart condition.
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